Tuesday, December 21, 2010
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A parent who really desires to understand his child does not look at him through the screen of an ideal. It is only when one feels no love for the child that one imposes upon him an ideal, for then one's ambitions are trying to fulfil themselves in him, wanting him to become this or that. If one loves, not the ideal, but the child, then there is a possibility of helping him to understand himself as he is. Krishnamurti
We are now here.
"Children who are labelled with Asperger's Syndrome do not need more structure and direction in their lives; they need considerably less. They need, primarily, to be freed from being seen as products or being objectified and defined by a list of subjective observations. They need parents who are unquestioningly on their side, not to impose their own or so-called experts' agendas on their children in the name of loving assistance, but simply to assist their children in carrying forward their own intrinsically motivated lives in process. To do this requires a willingness to ask radical questions and to let go of many entrenched assumptions about education, psychology and parenting, to name but a few. It requires going against mainstream and often allegedly expert opinion. It is not an easy path. It is not a neglectful path. It is a moral path."
Jan Fortune-Wood
4 comments:
I would be very happy to stop psychiatrists, full stop, they just make stories based on their own limited imagination IMHO! And I love this, but sadly those other labels are hard to achieve when subjected to the demands and prejudices of today's society, I suppose that is somewhat the point. I have sought out labels like ADHD for me and my kids as the alternative is not philosopher, brilliant or original thinker as they truly are but lazy, irresponsible, underachiever and misbehaving.
Greetings,
Thanks for sharing this link - but unfortunately it seems to be down? Does anybody here at aspiehomeeducation.blogspot.com have a mirror or another source?
Thanks,
Thomas
Nice post there. we have to not leave our work. But do often continuous to work is a great way to express yourself.
Loved this, am reposting it on my own blog (with a link to your site). Thanks for the share!
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